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How to stay away from creepy old men!
By IAmTheBee
Ever been in a public instance and seen the weird couple by a mirror? You may notice the girl says she is 17 in her bio, but the guy says he is 24... Now that's just illegal, but these men are everywhere! You know why? Because they don't usually get punishment. There's not much we can do about that besides staying away. Here's how:
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1 Sep, 2024 @ 5:13pm
18 Dec, 2024 @ 7:32pm
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Overview
How to stay away! 
Ways to tell if it is a creepy old man: 
Ending notes: 
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How to stay away!
Option 1 (the easiest): Block them :)
Option 2: Mute and hide avatar.
Option 3: Leave instance.
Option 4: Just don't accept their friend request.
Option 5: Don't surround yourself with older people because they seem "cool." They're likely preying on attention.
Option 6: Unfriend him if you have him added.
Ways to tell if it is a creepy old man:
-His bio says he is 21+ and has a description like:
~"Broken"
~"Alcoholic"
~"Lonely"
~"Dominant"
-He's hanging around minors!!
-He talks about his "special" times in VR.
-He wears one of those really close to naked demon avatars.
-He offers to buy you anything within a 3-month period.
-He unloads his sob story on you within a week.
-He wants to hang out with you everyday.
-He is in any of the following or close to groups:
Ending notes:
If you are a young, new VRChat player (you don't even have to be a female, it can happen to anyone), I suggest you follow this guide. I, myself, have been victim to plenty of these types of men. You may think that it is an obvious give away to not interact with these types of people, but with influence, it can be hard. You should stand your ground and not give into the side insults. Please! Listen to my warnings for much damage could be done without action. Thank you <3

P.S. I would like to mention that this doesn't even cover all bases, but most of what I have noticed. This mostly talks about creepy men, but there are definitely still creepy women too. Follow the same options and observations. Be safe out there!

Extra P.S.! This post is talking about the adults who want to get freaky with minors. I agree that it is not illegal to date at any age. Usually though, that's what they mostly head towards. Just be safe out there!
32 Comments
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BOOTYWARRIOR4455 15 Jul @ 2:14pm 
@Azrael Stupid says what.
StickARG320 13 Jul @ 9:42pm 
azrael built like a crumbl cookie:steamsalty::steamsalty:
IAmTheBee  [author] 3 Jul @ 2:50am 
(To AZRAEL) I never said that these were my morals. I simply pointed out things that were illegal and how to stay away from the people who commit these acts. It is your opinion that someone under 25 is a child, but it is not a fact for most people people in world. Fact is that most countries have deemed people under 25 as adults. Also, your argument includes a false dilemma fallacy (a logical fallacy where only two options are presented as possibilities when more options exist).
AZRÄEL 3 Jul @ 2:24am 
If your measurement of right and wrong is the law, then you have no morals. Anyone under 25 is a child and unfit to make permanent decisions or consent to sexual acts.
Arolar 21 Jun @ 7:31am 
thank you! just started playing and seen some vids about this major issue, thanks for the advice!
Chan 14 May @ 8:46pm 
99.5% of groups on this game are weird and terrifying. This game really isn't for children at all. The only way this game is possibly children approved is if you turn on the 18+ filter and they play with a guardian only not in public worlds to explore the fun worlds created by genuine people. It use to be a fun Ugandan knuckles meme game that has seriously degraded into degenerate behavior. (Even though some degenerate behavior existed before)

My experience is to world hop find a group of people that seems alright to hang out for a bit leave without sending a friend request. Otherwise you'll realize real quick that there friends are apart of the massive degenerate community and most people on this game now.
Unknown 13 May @ 11:29am 
“freak” is wild-
Unknown 10 May @ 3:17pm 
Aye
kon 8 May @ 11:30am 
someone check SelttiksYT's hard drive lmao
NitrogenOxide(NOx) 6 Mar @ 1:09am 
I knew a friend who had SO many +18 groups in his profile I swear 98% of them were suggestive or nsfw based